How to understand myself or yourself? Those not always easy questions to answer. So today I’d like to share 2 tips that have helped me to get to know myself a bit better and to see my life more accurately.
- What do you see in people.
What we see in others is quite often what we see in ourselves. And what irritates us in people may be what we don’t like in ourselves. What you judge in someone you are actually judging in yourself. Like for example my subject 042 Michelle, an ex-classmate of mine wears a watch of white colour...therefore I assumed that her favourite colour is white. Because I like red and I'm wearing a red watch...therefore I suppose its the same...which it is!!
Therefore what you notice and what irritates you in others can teach you important things about yourself. Things you may not be aware of. In a way people can be like a mirror for you. A mirror that can help you to learn more about yourself, what you fear and how you may be fooling yourself.
So, what people generally irritate you? What do you often judge or criticize people for?
What can that tell you about you?2. Be Weird~
Being weird doesn't mean being like a pleb!...got it? good XD.
When faced with a choice in your daily life, step back for a minute and think. Then take the option that is and feels unusual for you. Remember to never never never panic...there's always a plan B is you think without panicking!
If you often back down just don’t for this one time. If you often get into arguments with people then just this one time don’t and instead just let it go or treat the other person with kindness. Do the opposite of what you usually do and see what happens (while using common sense of course). Do something new and something you wouldn’t expect from yourself.
This is a fun and great way to get new experiences and to learn things about the world and about yourself that you wouldn’t if you kept going like you usually do. It’s also a great way to be surprised about life as things often turn out more positively than in your fear filled daydreams if you just take action.
Getting stuck in the same old routine until it becomes a rut can suck the life out of you. Doing the unusual thing in small and big situations, no matter how it goes, is a great way to feel alive again and to reveal aspects of yourself that may have been hidden from you.Trust me...even people think I'm weird but I'm not gonna lie to ya...I LOVE IT...think of Weird as Unique! try it :p
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