Tips For Flirting:
- Be graceful and keep moving with confidence. Men are psychologically programmed to “Turn-On” on this kind of movement. That’s why strippers move the way the do and don’t do Waltz instead.
- Look healthy- Please don't ever look like a zombie when you're flirting!
- Don’t lower your chin (it makes you look scared) and definitely keep your chest out (I think you girls know why). It doesn’t seem to matter if you have small breasts – it’s the posture that counts. SO QUIT SLOUCHING!!!
- Women choose the men that they want to approach them by flirting – most of the time anyway. If you want to see which men are “looking”, then watch out for the guy who is “scanning” the place. He may be alone, with his friends or even with another woman but his eyes will periodically “sweep” the room like a radar beam. And, just like a radar beam, he is looking for a signal. Its not hard to see this if you look carefully.
So, flirting is about being noticed and that means noticeable. Now there are 6 sensible things that really make a woman "stand out" than the rest:
- Colour - Don’t wear boring colours. The guy may not like what he sees but he will at least see you.
- Movement - Move! Be animated. Motion attracts the eye. When people are scared and timid they freeze. This implies that you are reluctant and unready. In short, you’re a poor opportunist for his time and efforts.
- Accessibility – The single biggest mistake that women make if they want to be approached is to appear difficult to approach. In a condition – no guy wants to try and “pick you up” while a group of your monkey-puss girlfriends watch him do his stuff. Men, on the whole, hate your girlfriends – they’re often bitchy, cruel, jealous, critical and very definitely get in the way. Where you sit, how you position yourself and what part of the environment you are in affects how accessible you are. The less accessible, the less you’ll be approached. Recognising accessibility is also a very powerful “man-thing”. Why would they want to waste their efforts on an inaccessible female? Come on girls...be smart! Boys are lazy.
- Eye Contact – Make eye contact with the guy(s) you’re interested in. To do this you have to be prepared to look around too – just enough but not to much or every lame and hopeless guys is going to be all over you. S0, remember this equation- no eye contact = no approaches....simple but brilliant!
- Be Different – Well, actually you should be just different enough to stand out. Just be different enough to stand out and be seen. No guy ever approached the invisible woman. Trust me I'm a guy too!
- Skin – When it comes to flirting, there’s no substitute for showing some skin. Men love skin – especially if it is smooth and unscarred. In their testosterone driven minds the equation is simple: Nice skin = availability. At a very basic level, men are programmed to look for naked skin – generally the more the merrier!
Courtesy of Ariff and Allan Peace
© Naughty Productions
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